A lone flower growing in the Badlands. A wee bit of sunshine in a dry and hard land. |
Hello Friends,
My discussion with you today has to deal with my word of 2022. This is the first year that I have chose a word for the year. I decided on Sunshine.
Sunshine ~ brightness or radiance, cheerfulness or happiness
a source of cheer or happiness
Sadly, this world of ours is getting more angry everyday. I can feel like that flower above that I found growing in the dry, hot and hard earth in the Badlands during a past trip.
Recently our family has been caught up with some angry people.
The first happened to my husband while he was checking out at the hardware store. The cashier had to change the tape in the machine, so my husband could get his receipt. While he waited, he was slammed by a shopping cart from behind by an older man. The man hit my husband with his shopping cart and yelled, "Move, I want to check out!" My husband explained he needed his receipt.
The older man continued to HUFF AND PUFF. He turned his cart away and pulled his wife with him to find a different check out. And as he did so, my husband walked on with his receipt in hand.
Word of advice to the old guy.. if you would have just waited patiently you would have been next to check out.
The next story happened to my son.. who recently was robbed.
He and his girlfriend went to see Batman. During the first 25 minutes of the film, six people where causing a disturbance. Talking loudly, making rude remarks and other bodily noises. Other guests started to leave. Sam and Catie were just about to leave, when management came and escorted the six adult hooligans out of the theater.
My son was so upset he gave me a call and simply asked me, "What is going on with people mom?"
So I ask you my dear friends. What is going on with society?
A friend of mine recently shared that while visiting with family, many mentioned how angry and rude people are getting, in fact it seems worse every day. She thought perhaps the pandemic has some to do with attitude of people. Other's have blamed Trump! Some blame Gas Prices. The current war, social media .. the list goes on.
REALLY?
I wonder, have those of us who extend grace.. maybe do it too much. I think I might be in that boat. My husband too. He did not say anything to the older man who hit him with the shopping cart, but should have he? Should we start to say, "Yo, this is not how we want our society to look like, angry, impatient and full of hate." Do we start to say something? Will it help?
I recently read the following in regards to the hate during this time..
If we allow ourselves to start thinking again and engaging with the world and engaging with each other. Be committed to each other and to a life of the mind and body.
"If we are to better the future, we must disturb the present."
Catherine Booth
And so I will continue to do my best to spread SUNSHINE one step at a time.. the best I can even in a hard, dry and hateful land.
A reminder how not to go mad in a mad world, "And when the world seems to be falling apart around you, create something, put a flower in a vase, bake a pie, draw a picture, knit socks."
Susan Branch