The Tale of Two Brothers
August 1st our two son's moved into a two bedroom apartment together. Our National Guard son is heading back to college August 24th. He will have online courses Monday, Wednesday and Friday. He travels to campus on Tuesday and Thursday for in class learning.
Our 2020 Graduate son is currently working full time. He is looking at starting his generals at Chippewa Valley Tech College in the Spring semester of 2021.
Here is a peek at the apartment.
I gave the boys an outdoor plant and put some solar lights in it. They love having a patio. We loved that the apartment was on the first level and we could use the patio door to move in.
We found a fun shower curtain.
We put in the shelving for them. They each have a shelf and baskets for their toiletries. The bathroom is small, by adding the shelving it will work out well for them.
The kitchen is spacious, with lots of counter space.
We are very pleased with the new apartment for the boys.
It has a washer and dryer in the apartment. Their very own washer and dryer. Yay!
It also has a dishwasher and microwave.
I created this little corner for them in the kitchen. Tomatoes, onions and garlic from mom's garden.
They both like to cook.
They are doing well and are happy with their place.
And with the move, that means that my husband and I are in an empty nest.
I have gotten use to Sam being off and on his own.
Having my little guy head out the door, well to be honest, my heart broke for a few days. I am so excited for the boys to venture out into the world and want to make it a better place.
At the same time, it is the big. ugly. world. and in 2020 it seems even more ugly.
I am thankful for friends and family that cheered me on the first few weeks of the empty nest.
I am getting use to the empty house. I am not use to the echo that is in their old room, with all the furniture gone. We are going to re do their bedroom into a guest room. I already have paint colors picked out and the way I want to decorate it, so that has been something to get my mind off the echo. Ha!
A dear friend gave me some positives to ponder...
♥ They still want to live together as friends, not only as brothers.
Good job on fostering that relationship, mama!
♥ They are responsible enough to live ALONE!
Good job teaching those "real life" skills, mama!
♥ They can afford to live on their own.
Good job teaching those budgeting skills, mama!
♥ You survived and thrived, adapted and learned these past 18 years as their parent and you will continue to do so in God's grace.
YOU'VE GOT THIS!